Hello!
A video on the blog today that I shared with Loving Difference members.
I don’t know about you, but I’m starving….. emotional and social connection feel like breadcrumbs for me right now so in a new video below I’m sharing how I’ve been feeling about that and the step by steps I’m taking to move towards more of what I need and want despite it feeling very scary at times this week. A mini masterclass in how I’m living what we share/teach inside Loving Difference. I remember books that taught me strategies but most didn’t work and they didn’t show me ‘how does this actually work in real life?’
Grateful for my Coach and companions on the path with me this week, holding space for tears, asking me challenging questions, encouraging me and offering words of wisdom and suggestions when I’ve been ready for that. My plans to spend more time at the coast are back ON after feeling stalled for more than 12 months since Covid. I’ve remembered again what matters most for me and turned my toes towards it. I’ve spoken truth and sat in the discomfort of reply.
My best friend reminds me of my song when I forget the words and this card she sent me this week has become my talis(wo)man for the days and weeks ahead in the turning toes, speaking truth, daring to step into uncertainty and follow what I know will refill my bucket to overflowing so that I can be best me.. for myself, for my clients and all those I love. It can’t wait any longer.
Perhaps they’re words you need to hear right now too… so from my heart to yours… you are amazing… become and stay wild… and don’t let anyone dull your sparkle! 💖
Here’s some questions to get you started reflecting on all this…
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What are you hungry for right now?
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What are you consuming or doing to numb that hunger or satisfy it in unhealthy ways?
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How could you turn your toes towards satisfying your hunger for what you value and need most of all in the healthiest and most authentic and truthful of ways?
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What are the fears and/or thinking that hold you back?
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You’re not alone. No idea what your needs are?… I didn’t have that question, let along an answer, in me seven years ago (I only knew or thought I knew what everyone else needed). Don’t know how to overcome fears or thinking that’s holding you back?
Book a call to discuss how I can assist you to make the changes you desire or access support from me and other travel companions join Loving Difference, with transformational and surprisingly fun coaching adventures that support your step by steps to reverse the impact of unknown neurodiversity, be YOU again and flourish – in your relationships and your life.
With love and starvation satisfying sparkle…
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