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It’s Time To BE YOU In Your Neurodiverse Relationship!

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Working with Natalie

Neurodiverse Relationships Coaching

So many women arrive here bearing the symptoms and scars of relationship and life, e.g..

  • physically – sleep issues, put on or lost weight, pain

  • emotionally – exhaustion, grief, anger, resentment, anxiety, depression

  • spiritually – lost touch with who they are, despair

  • mentally – exhaustion, confusion

  • socially – lost confidence, isolated

These may be experienced by ALL neuro-identities.

They aren’t who they want to be. Many have forgotten who that is and typically they’re also running out of hope that anything can truly change. Another way is possible and I know how much you need a map and some lights to guide the way.

I coach women in neurodiverse relationships to recover from the impact of unknown neurodiversity, reconnect with themselves and find the clarity to make courageous decisions about their relationships and the life they want to live.

Starting right now you can end your loneliness and despair

Change is possible and I’m here to share it all with you.

  • If you want things to change but it feels impossible, confusing or too hard to start.
  • If you need new ways that you can take action on urgently so that you and your loved ones can move from surviving to thriving; in a way that everyone’s needs can be catered for.
  • If you can’t remember who you are; you want to recover and reconnect with yourself, experience more calm and joy in your life and feel empowered to make decisions about your present and your future that feel positive and hopeful.
  • If you’ve read books, watched videos, attended courses, chatted for hours with AI, learned a lot about neurodiversity and are yet to find the map and ways that work in the actual day to day life and issues you face in your neurodiverse relationship and life.
  • If you’ve tried other forms of support, e.g. counselling, therapy, online groups and you’re still struggling with the same old issues, like you’re in a hamster wheel you can’t get out of!
  • If you’re working on your challenges and unresolved issues alone, without your partner alongside you or supportive of change.

….then you’re in the right place! ✨

There’s a different way!

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I’m here to support you with creating lasting change in your neurodiverse relationship.

Here’s how you can access coaching and be having a different experience ASAP!

Be You Coaching meets you where you are and supports you to recover, find clarity and change your life.

The most common issues I support women with are:

  • Reviving yourself. Reconnecting with who you are and ‘Being YOU again’ in your relationship and in your life. Reversing the impact of unknown neurodiversity. Reversing the symptoms of Cassandra Syndrome/OTRS.
  • Understanding more clearly what’s been going on in the past and healing past hurts so that you can move forward with hope, the possibility of a different present and future, and for those with a family, model something healthier for your children.
  • Resolving relationship challenges that often feel like being in a hamster wheel you can’t get out of, e.g. frequent arguments or escalations, resentment, issues that go undiscussed and unresolved for years, cycles of meltdowns/shutdowns, communication, disastrous family times together, sensory difference nightmares, feeling ‘alone together’ in the relationship.
  • Answering the ‘Stay or Go?’ question. Many clients want to know they’ve done everything they can for the relationship and this question isn’t as daunting as you imagine with clarity, confidence and the right support alongside you!
  • Navigating separation. If you’ve made a relationship decision, life beyond it is complex. When you’ve been together for years, it’s emotional, practical, financial, legal… and exhausting! You’re looking for support navigating neurodiversity through separation and divorce – you still need different ways than when you were together so that you can start living your new life whilst you disentangle from the old.

Below you’ll find your invitation to the first step into Be You Coaching – Reignite Roadmap.

I host Reignite Roadmap live approximately every 6–8 weeks throughout the year, with a pause over the summer holiday period and in December. You’ll find the next start date on the Reignite Roadmap purchase page.

With three live sessions over seven days, you’ll have space to find clarity, reconnect with hope and begin creating your own way forward from relationship stress and exhaustion.

I’ll be here to meet you when you’re ready.

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Common Questions

Is change really possible?

ABSOLUTELY YES! I guarantee that if you’re committed to learn about yourself and learn the strategies, you ask for help and consistently take action, following through on decisions you’ve made, you will succeed.

Did you know you can’t solve a problem with the same thinking that created it? So let’s create some new realisations about your situation ASAP, the sooner the better! Shining a light on your path and illuminating a new one creates two things – awareness and hope!!

Do you believe change is possible? If your answer is anything less than 10/10 yes, join Reignite Roadmap so I can show you a path forward.

Find Out More

Who do you coach? Do you have LGBTQ+ experience?

I coach women in a neurodiverse relationship who are ready and committed to the journey ahead! My passion is supporting you to discover you, be you and then more of you, in a way that also positively supports your experience of relationships with others! If you’re wanting that then I look forward to meeting all of who you are!

I support and embrace all expressions of gender and sexuality and the clients I work with fully reflect that. I’ve coached individuals and couples in gay, straight, queer and polyamorous relationships. What they all have in common is navigating the additional dimension of neurodiversity. LGBTQ+ is an integral dimension of my own lived experience that I’m comfortable sharing with clients.

I know from my lived experience and working with 100+ clients that the impact of unknown neurodiversity (and known) and symptoms that have been named Cassandra Syndrome/OTRS is more widely experienced than stereotypes and current narratives describe. I am committed to highlighting this so that everyone’s experience is validated and people can access the support they need to heal and experience better – for themselves and in their relationships.

If you resonate with my story, with other perspectives you discover here or anywhere else you’ve heard or seen me, you are welcome.

Can I work with you if my partner doesn’t know or isn’t supportive?

YES! For most of the women I’m supporting, their partner doesn’t know or is not supportive of them seeking help. I’m an email or a phone call away. I also know that change of any kind in that situation can be daunting. You may feel like you’ve already changed so much about yourself and you don’t want to change anything else. I understand this completely as it was me too. With my support, you’ll be focused on reversing the changes you’ve made so that you can be YOU again and thrive!

Can I work with you without an official diagnosis?

YES! You don’t need a formal diagnosis of anything to work with me on the challenges you’re facing with difference. You can also work with me if your partner sees the situation differently to you, doesn’t believe you’re in a neurodiverse relationship or doesn’t believe the impact it has had on you.

I’m not in the UK. Can I work with you?

YES! Geography is not a barrier to working with me. I work with women locally, nationally and internationally from the UK. I hope this client’s feedback reassures you too – “Coaching online was terrific. Natalie’s in the UK and I’m in Australia and it felt as comfortable as being face to face.”

Do you have any free resources?

YES!…AND

Remember… Change = Knowledge + Action

Beyond any knowledge or new awareness, it’s action that creates change and for that we typically need some form of support. Research shows that a combination of professional and peer support creates the quickest and most sustainable change – that’s absolutely been my experience too. It’s the reason I’ve combined coaching AND action-focused community in my approach to recovery and thriving in neurodiverse relationships.

On my website you’ll find helpful, healthy and hopeful awareness by:

 

Also head over to the Mythbusting Neurodiverse Relationships Podcast, accessible via Spotify, Apple Music or wherever you listen to podcasts and also on YouTube.

Beyond all that awareness… Be You Coaching offers professional support for life-changing step by step actions that last a lifetime. Reignite Roadmap is your first step for just £47/$67.